Well I can now safetly assume that Ben will NOT be born on the tenth seeing as it's 8:34 pm as I write this (please feel free to prove me wrong B!).
I thought perhaps he wasn't coming because there was not a cake.. I wouldn't go to a birthday without cake either. I made cupcakes so there would be no excuse... he must be nothing like either of his parents- there is nothing that J and I wouldn't do for a cupcake!!!
Now as first time parents please know that we aren't THAAAAAT nieve, we do know that newborn babies can't have cupcakes for at least three weeks... I was going to freeze him one!